Raising a Blind Child

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Raising a blind baby may seem hopelessly difficult at first. For most parents, this isn't something they expected or were prepared for.

At this point, you're most likely searching for answers and preparing for what feels like an endless journey. Questions and emotions are running through your mind and you may feel like you're in a rush to figure things out...

What do I do?

How can I cope?

How can I help my child?

Does it ever get easier?

What you need is support, understanding, and resources. I began this website as a means to provide all three to other parents of blind and disabled children, but as the site has grown I worry that the information may have become overwhelming. Where do you start?

I decided that it was time to put together a step-by-step resource guide, picking out the most pertinent articles and resources for parents with babies and young children searching for help.

Let's get started!


Step 1: Find Support

The most important thing to do at this stage is find someone who understands what you are going through and can offer relevant advice. Whether you find a support group in your area through Early Intervention or join an online group (Yahoo Groups is a good place to start looking), the important thing is to connect with other parents.

Here is some advice from real parents of kids with special needs:

  • Enjoy every minute, no matter what!
  • Relax; Never forget you know your child best; Ask yourself if your concern now is going to matter when your child is an adult.
  • It's going to be ok...
  • Don't try to "fix" every problem. Take life one day at a time and enjoy every minute. Give yourself a break now and then.
  • A sense of humor is a must!
  • It's amazing how this experience allows you to grow. I think I like myself better now, than I did years ago.
  • What seemed to break our hearts at the beginning, was truly a blessing. Enjoy every precious moment.
  • Don't fret so much about what your baby can or can't see; In the long run, it's not really as important as you think.
  • Don't worry so much about "development" and throw the development charts out the window. Your child will grow up to be who he is going to be.
  • Social workers are your friends. If you ever have a problem or a question, call your social worker or case manager first. If they don't have the answer they can give you the number of someone who does.


Step 2: Read Some Articles

There's so much information out there vying for your attention right now, from medical journals discussing genetic therapy to all the flyers and handouts your therapists have brought with them on home visits. Here's a good thing to remember: You don't have to read everything!

I've chosen a few articles here to cover some of the basic questions you may have right now. Browse through this list and see what grabs you.

Feel free to print these articles or share them with others. If you are a social worker organizing a support group for parents of visually impaired children, these articles might make good handouts.


Ivan's sad because his teeth hurt.Try a Little Tenderness: Sorting through the Grieving Process
This article describes what it's like when you first learn your baby has a vision impairment and helps you sort through your emotions.





Ivan sleeps peacefully.Help! My Baby Won't Sleep!
A common complaint I hear from parents of blind children is that they don't sleep well. This article provides ideas to help get kids to sleep.





Drawing of a boy after his parents divorce with a line drawn down his middle.From Cracks to Chasms: Maintaining Your Relationship When You Have a Disabled Child
This article gives practical advice on how to keep your relationship in tact while raising a special needs child.




Ivan and mom.Yes You Can!
This is one of my favorite articles that I have written about how to help and encourage your child without pushing too hard.




Ivan playing with his blocks.The Best Toys for Blind Babies
Playing with a blind baby really isn't difficult. Just because they can't see doesn't mean they can't interact. Try to focus on toys that are interesting to touch or make sounds and be sure to have fun and engage your child!



Ivan playing in a toy car at the mall.Everyday Activities for Blind Children
You may think it will be hard to teach your blind baby about the world around them and really get them to understand how things work, but really all you need to do is get them involved in simple activities.




Step 3: Join Some Organizations

There are many private and government-run organizations out there designed to help you and your baby. Some organizations charge a small membership fee, but many are free. When you join you'll receive an introductory package full of information and resources. This can be a great way to connect with other parents as well.

A good place to start is to locate and contact your state's Commission for the Blind. Not all states have one, but most do. Find out what you need to do to get registered and meet with a case manager as soon as you can. They'll be able to tell you about all the resources in your area and what services you're eligible for. Of course, you should also register with your local Early Intervention office and meet them, as well.

Here are a few of our favorite organizations...


Step 4: Educate Your Family

Your extended family and friends no doubt want to help, but may feel uneasy if they don't understand what's going on. A great way to begin educating your family is to print up some easy-to-read fact sheets and hand them out to any one who's interested.

All of these fact sheets are from the Blind Babies Foundation and are in .pdf format. You will need Adobe Acrobat Reader to view them on your computer, or you can learn more about Adobe Accessibility and using screen readers to read .pdf files.


Step 5: Take a Break!

You've been working so hard trying to inform yourself about your new baby and what's going on. It's perfectly resaonable to feel overwhelmed and exhausted and more than sensible to stop and just enjoy yourself and your baby.

Don't forget to slow down and just be you!


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Posted by Anonymous on Apr 17, 2012 - 6:15am

I teach visually impaired multi-handicapped special needs children. I have seen some amazing responses to the iPad! It would wonderful to hv an iPad to use with my students!! I see how the iPad can increase visual attention & directed reaching & cause & effect skills!

Posted by Anonymous on Dec 08, 2013 - 7:09pm

Need help! My daughter is totally blind. Five years old. Got kicked off bus because she was too noisey. Any ideas?

Posted by mangal on Feb 28, 2014 - 5:16am

dear i am very impress to read documents and hopeful for my blind child my child is 1 year old.

Posted by
on Jul 01, 2014 - 12:07am

Hello, I am friends of a family who needs help in the school holidays for their child. Are there any programs, daycare centres where they can send their child for occasional care? We are in Melbourne, Victoria. Thanks

Posted by
on Jun 19, 2015 - 11:32am

Thanks, Your article is amazing and quite helpful to me I want to start small help centre for teaching born blind children in the age 4 to 10 years so also to their parents to help them in bringing up their blind minors. Apart from these guidelines in the article are their easily available books and material for teaching the blind kids(4-10 years old) as well as to the teachers and parents?
I stay in Mumbai , India .
Please guide me. You can email me.

Posted by
Johnson mdluli
on Jul 24, 2015 - 1:53am

what a wonder informatiom ,i work for the organisation of the blind based in south africa in Johannesburg how do i get a book on how to raise blind children

Posted by
on Jul 27, 2015 - 4:29am

Good day.
my little angel is almost two years old he has optic Atrophy. he was born premature but not blind. when he was about 2 months old he stopped breathing and the doctors told me that was the reason he is blind. Anyway I was on the internet because he is very delayed even on the chart you provided. He is not sitting, crawling or walking. And I am so scared that he won’t be able to do this. Can someone please give me some advice as to what I can do to help him in this matter.

Kind Regards