What Are “Baby Leaps” and Are They Real?

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  • Baby leaps are sudden changes in a baby’s mental development as their nervous system develops and their perceptions change.
  • Dr. Plooij and Dr. van de Rijt developed the theory of baby leaps in their influential book, The Wonder Weeks
  • Each developmental leap is preceded by increased fussiness, separation anxiety, and sleep disturbance as the baby enters a new phase of learning and perception. 
  • Critics of this theory believe that babies reach developmental milestones at their own pace and that attempting to predict their development through a schedule is impossible. 

Every parent has experienced it at some point. Your baby seems happy; you’ve finally worked out some routines for sleeping and eating, and you’ve overcome some challenges. Then, just when you think you’re getting the hang of this parenting thing, your baby won’t stop crying. 

They’re fussy. They’re shy now when they weren’t before. They burst into tears if you leave the room for a second. That hard-won sleep routine is out the window, and you’re up all night again. What’s going on? 

According to The Wonder Weeks, it sounds like your baby is actually in the fussy phase before a big developmental change, known as a baby leap. Your baby’s brain is working hard, and your baby is about to show you a whole new level of mental ability. So, what are “baby leaps,” and are they real? Let’s look into the popular parenting theory to find out more.    

The Facts About Baby Leaps

“Baby leaps” refer to the developmental milestones, specifically mental leaps, that most babies reach around the same time in their first 20 months.  

These leaps were studied and explained in the work of two Dutch child development experts, Dr. Frans X. Plooij and his wife Dr. Hetty van de Rijt. They are the authors of popular parenting manual, The Wonder Weeks, which breaks baby leaps down into ten different stages.

The Wonder Weeks
  • Plooij, Frans X. (Author)
  • English (Publication Language)
  • 510 Pages – 09/05/2017 (Publication Date) – Kiddy World Publishing (Publisher)

Dr. Plooij and Dr. van de Rijt proposed that when a baby reaches a mental leap, they experience a change in their ability and perception. The change can come on suddenly and be overwhelming. Most babies respond to this through an intense period of fussiness which may include mood swings, changes in appetite, sleep regression, or other behavioral shifts. 

This theory helps parents understand and survive difficult periods they may go through with their baby. However, as a baby’s temperament temporarily changes during these times, they are also rapidly learning new skills. As a result, many parents will observe significant changes in their baby’s mental and physical development during each new developmental leap.  

Funny barefoot baby in white clothes sitting on bed near colorful construction and taking fingers into his mouth.

When Do Babies Go Through These Leaps?

The developmental leaps tend to happen at around the same ages for most babies. 

Baby Leap What Happens 
Leap 1: Wonder Week 4-6 
Gaining Awareness 
  • Your baby suddenly becomes aware of the world around them.
  • They become sensitive to sound and are easily overstimulated.
  • You will notice their first tears and first smiles.
  • Fussiness and crying increases.
Leap 2: Wonder Week 7-9 
Noticing Patterns and Routines 
  • Your baby discovers their hands.
  • They start to fall into the rhytyhms and routines of the day.
  • They don’t see everything as mixed-up in the world.
  • They begin to understand the patterns in things.
Leap 3: Wonder Week 11 
Smooth Transitions 
  • Your baby puts things in their mouth to explore them.
  • Your baby works on rolling.
  • Your baby experiments more with their voice.
  • Their movements become smoother.
Leap 4: Wonder Week 14-19 
Understanding Events 
  • Your baby is used to the new world and exploring it.
  • They start communicating, babbling, and repeating sounds.
  • They start to sit up.
Leap 5: Week 22
Understanding Relationships 
  • Your baby understands personal relationships.
  • They may feel separation anxiety.
  • They understand relationships between objects.
  • They consolidate their learning from the last four leaps.
Leap 6: Wonder Week 33-38 
Understanding Categories 
  • Your baby goes from perceiving relationships to perceiving categories of people, animals, and things.
  • They are watching, comparing, and categorizing their experiences.
  • They make associations, for example, between a picture of a dog and your pet dog.
Leap 7: Wonder Week 41-47
Discovering Connections 
  • Your baby starts to “name” things and people, if not with actual words then with sounds and names they make up.
  • They understand that events happen in order.
  • They start to fit things into each other.
  • Sorting toys and puzzle become more interesting.
Leap 8: Wonder Week 51 
Learning Programs 
  • Your baby is completes their first year of life.
  • They understand “programs” or the order of how things happen, for example, getting dressed, having lunch, and washing dishes.
  • They want to “help” you with these programs.
  • Speech and gross motor skills are improving.
Leap 9: Wonder Week 59-65 
Discovering Principles
  • Now that your baby knows how programs work they do more of them and create their own.
  • They reflect and think about actions and consequences.
  • They think strategically about how to achieve things they want to do.
Leap 10: Wonder Week 70-75 
Awareness of Systems 
  • Your baby is now a toddler.
  • They understand that they are an individual, as are Mom and Dad.
  • They imitate to learn.
  • They are walking and talking to some degree.
  • They enjoy music and engage with their toys differently.

How to Tell if Your Baby Is Going Through a Leap

According to The Wonder Weeks, the three Cs—clinginess, crankiness, and crying—often accompany babies’ mental leaps. 

These periods of increased fussiness precede each leap and can last from one to six weeks in some transitions. Your child may cry more, have trouble falling asleep, have changes in appetite, and increased tantrums. In addition, your child may be more shy than usual, clingy, and have difficulty separating from you.

The theory behind Wonder Weeks is that the changes to your baby’s brain and mental development are startling and overwhelming for your little one.

Their nervous system makes new connections as they learn about the world and rapidly discover new abilities and skills. As a result, your baby’s fussiness increases for intense periods between developmental leaps as your baby assimilates new information.

Your baby is doing the hard work of achieving each mental leap. It’s not surprising that they need reassurance during the transition between each new phase. Luckily, these intense periods of fussiness will end as your baby reaches each new stage and builds on what they learned from the last mental leap.  

Cute little toddler girl getting dressed and changing clothes outdoor.

How Long Do Baby Leaps Last?

According to the Wonder Weeks experts, baby leaps can last from one to six or seven weeks.

The fussy, clingy phase that precedes a mental leap can also last anywhere from one week to six weeks, depending on your baby’s age and the leap they’re approaching. The Wonder Weeks creators now have an app that accompanies their book to help parents keep track of their babies’ behavior week to week.  

However, it’s important to remember that the Wonder Weeks theory is based on observations of when most babies tend to reach these markers. Not every baby will experience every leap the same way for the same amount of time.    

Tips to Make the Most of Baby Leaps

Making the most out of baby leaps is not about accelerating your baby’s mental growth or getting them to acquire new skills more quickly. 

The idea is that observing and predicting when these leaps will happen will help you understand why your baby is unsettled so that you can support them better. 

Try a Wonder Weeks chart.

A Wonder Weeks chart will help you keep track of your baby’s fussy periods to predict when a baby leap may be approaching. The chart calculates your baby’s age from their due date rather than their date of birth. There is also a Wonder Weeks app to easily track your baby’s mental leaps. 

Save sleep training for non-fussy periods.

Parents who understand Wonder Weeks know that trying to sleep train a baby during a period of fussiness when clinginess, crankiness, and crying have intensified is not a good idea. If you want to implement new routines in your baby’s life, wait for a period of calm, known as a “sunny week,” in the developmental phase. 

Periods between leaps are often characterized by sleep disturbance and mood swings. Therefore, it’s best to wait for these to pass and for your baby to be relatively settled before trying to sleep train for naps or institute a new bedtime routine.  

FAQs

What is the difference between baby leaps and growth spurts?

A baby leap is a mental change in a baby’s development that is sudden and makes the world look different to them. The baby’s nervous system is changing. As a result, their perception and understanding of the world around them suddenly expand, which can be startling.

Although this change can also accompany new physical skills and growth, a baby leap refers primarily to mental changes. 

Growth spurts refer to rapid physical changes that a baby or child may undergo. These, too, can be accompanied by trouble with sleep and increased fussiness. 

Do all babies go through leaps? 

According to The Wonder Weeks authors, all babies reach mental leaps around the same time. They made this claim based on their observations and study of hundreds of infants. 

However, while the authors claim that all babies go through the same mental leaps, critics point out that the theory doesn’t consider factors that may affect an individual baby’s development. 

Not all babies are the same. Cognitive developmental delay, premature birth, genetic factors, health issues, medical conditions, or other disabilities can all impact the pace at which a baby achieves mental milestones.   

What if my baby doesn’t reach a leap on schedule? 

As with any parenting theory, you may find that Wonder Weeks suits your baby and really helps you. Or, you might find that your child’s behavior doesn’t correspond to the ten baby leaps. Or, like many parents, you may fall somewhere in the middle. 

The theory of baby leaps may be most helpful to you if used as a general guide. Instead of worrying about whether your baby hits a leap on schedule, talk with a healthcare professional if you’re concerned that your child has not reached a milestone as expected. 

One of the criticisms of Wonder Weeks is that predicting a baby’s development schedule is unrealistic for most babies and their families. However, if you notice that your baby isn’t acquiring new skills the way you thought they would, you should consult with a pediatrician.

What Are "Baby Leaps" and Are They Real


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